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Mural of Chandragupta Maurya's counsil [2] [1]Chanakya's attitude towards women in 250 - 283 BC

The court of Chandragupta Maurya, especially Chanakya, played an important part in the foundation and governance of the Maurya dynasty [3].


 Two books are attributed to Chanakya: Arthashastra [10] and Nitishastra which is also known as Chanakya Niti. The Arthashastra discusses monetary  [9] and fiscal [8] policies, welfare, [7]  international relations  [6], and war strategies [5]  in detail. Nitishastra is a treatise on the ideal way of life, and shows Chanakya's in depth study of the Indian way of life. [4]



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Why respect and protect women?
Specially contributed by  Radhakrishnan 'Chanakya' Pillai [1]' For Picture Click Here


Brief Introduction
on
Women life and Chanakya
by Dr. Ashok Koparday
WOMEN LIFE
Advocates of feminism [10] and gender equality [9] will find this article thought provoking.
When we talk to men and women about womens's rights, gender equality, a paradox crosses my mind. It is about women, how they treat other women. Women at work who are educated, earning, even today have to succumb to traditional pressures of gender inequality enforced by women (mother in law syndrome).
Women willingly kill female fetus.
It is not just women, but men too, work for women's rights [8] and enforcing gender equality. Gender inequality has been existing for centuries, throughout history and exists even now all over world.
Is women life not human life?
Have you wondered about women life before Christ?
Hallmark of human dignity is women being treated with respect.
What about protecting women?
Here you will find views of Chanakya who lived in century 350 - 283 BC. They are applicable even today. Chanakya was Professor at Takshashila University [7] in India.

Key Topics
  • feminism
  • gender
  • gender inequality
  • in women
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  • women how
  • women in india
  • women life
  • women work
  • women's right
CHANAKYA [1]
If there lived an undisputed Management Guru, it is Chanakya of India. Chanakya, maestro Administrator, Leader maker, Ace player and Teacher of Human Interrelationship Skills himself actually planned and executed mind boggling strategies in his life time in India. His empowering treatises, well known as the Chanakya Niti, Kautilya's Arthashastra, are thus backed by real life demo.  Kautilya's Arhtashastra are treasure troves for Corporates. Chanakya's Best Seller Non Fiction Books (treatises) can empower CEO's, or those aspiring to be CEO's, in designing and using crafty stategeies. Kautilya's Shastra [sanskrit word meaning science] are useful even today to Politicians, Senior Managers, and People like us. This revolutionary thinker, philosopher with his sound basis of Interpersonal Dyanamics has given tricks and tips that appear Machiavellian [13] and are useful to people in all walks of life. Those interested in knowing more can contact authoratative source Mr. Radhakrishan 'Chanakya' Pillai, whose articles are published in reputed newspapers and magazines.
Presenting verbatim copy as published in
THE TIMES OF INDIA


Name of Paper:
THE TIMES OF INDIA (MUMBAI MIRROR)
15th Sept 08 (Page 22)
         
IMPORTANCE OF RESPECTING AND PROTECTING OUR WOMEN
-         Radhakrishnan 'Chanakya' Pillai
(This weekly column will bring out the relevance of Kautilya's Arthashastra[3] in today's corporate world)
Bhishma, the warrior hero of Mahabharata [2], had once advised Yudhishtira: "A society that does not respect women will perish." It was this lack of respect towards the fairer sex that caused the two great wars in our Hindu epics[4] the 18-day battle in Mahabharata itself after Draupati was humiliated in front of all men and, in Ramayana [5], the war in Lanka when Sita[6] was kidnapped and taken there by Ravana [6].

Even Chanakya refers to the priority women should enjoy in any emergency: "From a dangerous situation he should move away with effort, after removing the women-flock" (7.5.46).

In other words, even when one has to run away from a disaster or a dangerous situation – he should do so only after rescuing women. You may ask: Where is the need for such lessons when there's so much gender equality [7]?
Well, ask your own female friends and relatives whether they think equality has come in totally, or harassment towards them has ended completely.

Base your own decision on their answer. And if you believe a change in mindsets is a must, read on to see how we can respect and protect women in our daily lives:

1) IN OUR WORK PLACES

Today, the number of working women has increased in all areas. Be it in the field of business, education or civil services.

All of us have to interact with women. Remember that men and women think differently. It's a basic psychological difference.

When men and women work on a common project together, they bring in different perspectives. Now if you are the boss, see to it that there is a gender mix in every project. If you are just an employee, inculcate not only a respect towards women but also a receptiveness to their point of views.
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2) AT OUR HOMES

While a house is incomplete without a lady, the women in our family also have talents that need to be given wings.

Identify it and give freedom to explore whether it's our daughter, wife, sister or mother.

3) AS A NATION

Even though women have proved themselves in every field, we still have a long way to go. Just look at the amount female infanticides still taking place, a low girl literacy, prevailing practice of dowry, etc.

No social work can be complete till women are empowered. We refer to our country as "Mother India", but hardly allow her to have any daughters.

Swami Vivekananda [14] had rightly said:

"Educate the girl child and the nation will awaken."
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The author is a 'strategic leadership' trainer and consultant and also the Director of SPM FOUNDATION, the vision of which is to bring back ancient Indian knowledge in modern day applications. 
Contact at rchanakyapillai@spmfoundation.in

Name of Paper: Times of India (MUMBAI MIRROR)
Location of India   [12]
15th Sept 08 (Page 22)
The above article can be found on line – click here:
FOR AN E COURSE ON KAUTILYA'S ARTHASHASRTRA
LISTEN TO RADHAKRISHNAN 'CHANAKYA' PILLAI ON RADIO
Every week on the show 'Ask Chanakya' for details click here
FOR GOING TO SPIRITUAL TOURS
[13] word 'Machiavellian'
Dictionary http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/refpages/search.aspx?q=Machiavellian
Date accessed: 2008 December 31

- cunning and unscrupulous: using clever trickery, [14] amoral methods, and expediency to achieve a desired goal, especially in politics
- relating to Machiavelli: relating to or characteristic of Niccolò Machiavelli or his political philosophy
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pain-during-sex-ovarian-cyst

How to know that ovarian cyst is the cause of discomfort during intercourse?
Ovarian Cyst being uncommon cause of discomfort during sex, doctor should not miss it.


Chocolate Cyst of Ovary is specific Chocolate that a woman who has it never relishes.
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Endometriosis
Poly cystic Ovarian Syndrome PCOS
Hemorrhagic Ovarian Cyst

Many women will have ovarian cysts some time or other in their child bearing age.
Most Ovarian Cysts are harmless. We call them 'functional' or 'phsiological' cysts. Ovarian cysts often go unnoticed. Between 4% and 10% of women of childbearing age develop Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS).
What are
chocolate cysts of ovary,
endometriosis,
Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS).
Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS).
Most are harmless "functional” or "physiologic" cysts.
How will I know if I have ovarian cysts

Multiple cysts are one hallmark of PCOS. PCOS
What can ovarian cyst cause?
Ovarian Cysts and Poly cystic Ovarian Syndrome due to hormonal disruptions result in
persistent acne,
excessive body hair,
thinning scalp hair,
infertility,
obesity,
increased risk of diabetes,
cardiovascular disease,
uterine cancer or
breast cancer.

Ovarian cysts can cause discomfort during intercourse. They may
bleed,
rupture, or twist the ovary, causing
significant pelvic pain.
Sudden or severe pelvic pain, especially with vomiting or a fever, is a medical emergency



TREATMENT WITH MEDICINES

Treating endometriosis with medicines has definite limitations. Medication usually controls mild or moderate pain and may eliminate small patches of the disease. But large chocolate cysts in the ovary are less likely to respond, and drugs cannot remove scar tissue. This is why surgery may be needed to improve fertility by removing adhesion, lesions, nodules or endometriomas.
As described earlier, laparoscopy can be used as a therapeutic tool. For example, fluid can be drained ; adhesion freed; and patches of endometriosis destroyed using a laser or electrical current. Even large endometriomas can be removed through the laparoscope by a skilled surgeon, so that today most cases can be successfully treated through the laparoscope. Open surgery (laparotomy) is needed only very rarely.

Some ovarian cysts can become cancerous. These are all rare cancers

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vagina-cleaning

QUESTION
i need your help. plz tell me what can i do. my daughter by mistake insert a banana in her vagina and the banana broke inside the vagina.n what can i do.tell me as early as possible
REPLY -
VAGINAL DOUCHING

VAGINAL DOUCHING
1. First thing is not to panic
2. You need to take your daughter to Gynecologist.
3. Just a finger inside the vagina (the place from where periods come)
can do the cleaning. Wash with water. Soap/Cream/Gel is not to be used.
4. Even if you do nothing it will come out during periods.
5. Please let me know if you have any additional questions or issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS FCSEPI
Consultant PsychoSexual Medicine
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

Member: Indian Medical Association [1]
Accreditation:Maharashtra Medical Council Registration
Member: Family Planning Association of India [2]

Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]

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increased size of breast in boys

Your Question
Doctor's Reply

"Hello,
I am suffering from gynaecomastia.Its just that my chest is not well toned.Online thre is a medicine named gynexin wich helps reduce chest fat.I dnt want 2 undergo xpensive surgery ,so pls can u see d ingredients n let me kno whtr its safe 2 consume it or not"
Doctor's reply:
Please DO NOT consume gnexin, or any other medicine or undergo surgery.



You must be a teenager, who is feeling extremely embarrassed and disturbed having noticed that your chest does not look like that of other boys. Your chest near the breast region is soft and prominent and you are scared that you will look like girl. You are so conscious of this enlargement that you do not dare to change clothes in front of others. You are overwhelmingly ashamed. Others will laugh at you or tease you if they see is a worry that is associated with the continuous worry that you look like female and are not masculine.


Just as two human faces are not alike the chest area of different boys appears different in teenage.



Why do I have chest where breast area appears swollen like a girl's? Other boys do not have it.
(Common) Causes of Gynecomastia
The most common cause of apparent enlargement of of the breast tissue is the hormonal change that happens in puberty. It is important to remember that all men/boys do not have chest full of hair. Male actors like Govinda, Salman Khan, have sparse hair on chest.

Physiological gnyecomastia
occurs due to increased levels of Estrogens and decreased level of testosterone. Physiologic Gynecomastia can occur in new born babies, adolescent boys and aged men.

Usually the fat accumulation causes raised nipple, areoloa (dark skin just around the nipple), but does not cause enlargement of entire breast.

Pathological gynecomastia is due to several reasons, one of them being intake of certain medicines.


How to know if Testosterone level in blood is normal?

A simple and sure test.
If a boy masturbates than he can be sure that the levels of testosterone are normal.

Pathological gynecomastia is due to various reasons, one of them being medicines.


The natural variation among boys during upsurge of hormones in adolescents can cause lot of secret worry and fear. If your doubt weighs heavily on you, you must visit family physician. Whether
you have gynecomastia, or you are just bugged by false belief that you have gnyecomastia
can be clarified by objective assessment by family physician. The doctor may advice investigations either to rule out pathological gnynecomatia or to provide you with confirmation that you do not have gynecomastia.

Physiological Gynecomastia is seen in newborn, teenagers and the aged.



why-to-cry-study-on-tears

joy expressed in tearsrose makes me happy

Why not hold back tears?
specially contributed by Sangita.



The Crying Effect Test..!

There was a study done where a control group of 100 people were divided into two.
50 people watched a very funny, tears-of laughter type movie.
50, watched a very sad and tears of compassion type movie.
At the end of the sessions researchers collected the "Happy Tears" and " The Sad
Tears" with eye droppers.

They found that "Happy Tears" are made up of brine... salt water and not a great deal else
However the "Sad Tears" were found to contain the very same chemicals and enzymes that are found in tumors, ulcers and other such lumps and bumps and sicknesses through out the body.

This test concluded that the body, when crying in sadness etc is literally flushing out
all of the toxic-chemicals that accumulate and are a part of the sadness /heartache experience.

Therefore if one holds back those tears, those toxic-waters will find somewhere else
to deposit themselves... and prolonged lack-of-crying-release will guarantee that the body will accumulate a huge amount of internal pollution and toxicity that should have been released through the tears....... is it any wonder that the eyes sting so much when we hold back our tears?
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disease-sex-contraception

You wrote:
hi.
i am an 19 year old girl.
i have crohns disease so often suffer from bad diarrhea.
iv been told that this means contraception such as the pill and the morning after pill could fail to work on me.
Is this true?
if it is, could you reccomend other forms of contraception as i do not feel safe just using a condom.
Also, i read recently that ibs and crohns also can cause uncomfortbale sex and pain.
i reguarly have bad discomfort and pain during and after sex.
Could you suggest any thing that could help me?
thanks a million.

Even if you have Crohns Syndrome contraceptive measures do work and sex is a pleasure. If it

pains!

No pains only gain
Pain during sex is dyspareunia.
It is not related to Crohns Disease/inflammatory bowel disease pathology.
Colitis, inflammation of the intestine results in abdominal cramping and recurring diarrhea. If you are in pain and suffering with this on those days, you may not be sexually aroused enough. This diminished sexual arousal causes decreased lubrication in the vagina and leads to pain.

Sex, has nothing to do with pain.
Sex done correctly, means shamelessly, invigorates the body. Endorphins are released along with smooth and skeletal muscle relaxation. The neuro-endocrine-immune system are not separate, but are linked closely.

Not because of coercion from the partner, but willingly when aroused you 'enjoy' sex you may find Crohns disease becoming less frequent, less irritating.

Contraceptives and Crohns Disease
Contraceptives, including emergency contraceptive pills, are effective.

Please let me know if you have any additional questions or issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS FCSEPI

Consultant PsychoSexual Medicine

Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

Member: Indian Medical Association
Accreditation:Maharashtra Medical Council Registration
Member: Family Planning Association of India

Fellow: Council of Sex Education and Parenthood [International]

URL http://mydoctortells.com _ _ _sexual health matters

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Anger and Love have no limits. Choose Love. Have Beautiful Life.

While a man was washing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....
with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'

Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions..... . sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Anger and Love have no limits, Choose the later to have a beautiful lovely life ....
Things are to be
used and people are to be loved,
But the problem in today's world is that

People are used and things are loved.......

Source:
From USA
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Question
I was a virgin before I had sex

Sex is not painful. It is enjoyable. Always.
Dr. Ashok Koparday



Your question:
"I was a virgin before I had sex with my boyfriend. The first time we did it I was not enjoying it at all, because it hurt a lot at first then I didn't even feel anything when he was in me. I figured that was because it was my first time. The second time we had sex its hurt just going in and again I couldn't feel him. He was really big and he was going really fast. I want to know why I wasn't enjoying it. Is there something wrong with me. "


REPLY
"_ _ _The first time_ _ _ it hurt a lot at first_ _ _

The second time_ __it hurt just going in_ _ _"


You are beginning with a new experience, which you believe hurts initially. Soon all the hurt will subside and your mind will be able to experience the joy.

MORE FOR YOU
Do you know that sex has nothing to do with 'pain' or 'hurt'?

Then why does it pain?
It pains because we have heard or read,
"First time it pains, sometimes there may be bleeding also. Then gradually it becomes okay". THIS IS NOT TRUE. If you believe it, as most people wrongly believe, then you do get pain.

Here the Mechanism is Explained:
When we believe it is going to pain there is fear of pain (naturally) and the vaginal opening (subconsciously) contracts (vaginismus) at the time of entry of penis. This causes pain or even bleeding.
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How will the pain go? When will I begin to enjoy?
Once you are accustomed and realize that it pains no more, your fear of pain is gone, then mind is free to enjoy.
It is awesome seeing a slick Mercedes Benz car moving by. What a fun?
When you have one, and begin to drive do you think initially it will be fun?
You need to know where to put the key, how to change gears and so on. Some one experienced has to teach you. You got to get accustomed and when you know, zoom you go. All fun.

Correct knowledge from experienced person is important.

BASIC KNOWLEDGE IS VERY MUCH NECESSARY TO ALL BOYS AND GIRLS BEFORE MARRIAGE.


Don't you understand that human beings have to learn almost everything?
Without learning you cannot play sports, tennis, chess and so on.
You have to study in school or college. You work in office because you have knowledge.
AMAZING BUT TRUE
Only human beings need to learn, animals do not need to learn. Human beings go to school, animals do not go to school or tuition. Human beings have to learn every thing like: sports, playing guitar or tabla, elocution and drama. Even wearing a saree has to be taught. Animals do not go to drawing classes or go for learning classical music or dance. Is it not?
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Please let me know if you have any additional questions or issues.
Best regards,
Dr. Ashok Koparday MBBS FCSEPI

why-i-love-my-mom

This is a truly BEAUTIFUL piece.


Please read this at a slow pace,
digesting every word and in leisure ... do not hurry ....this is a
treasure...!

For those lucky to still be blessed with your Mom, this is beautiful.
For those of us who aren't, this is even more beautiful. For those who
are moms, you'll love this.
MY MOTHER
The young mother set her foot on the path of life. 'Is this the long
way?' she asked.
And the guide said:
'Yes, and the way is hard and you will be old before you reach the end of it. But the end will be better than the beginning.'

But the young mother was happy, and she would not believe that anything
could be better than these years.

So she played with her children, and gathered flowers for them along
the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and the sun shone on them
and the young Mother cried, 'Nothing will ever be lovelier than this.'
________________0_______________

Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was dark, and the
children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and
covered them with her mantle, and the children said, 'Mother, we are not
afraid,
for you are near, and no harm can come.'

And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children
climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she
said to the children,' A little patience and we are there.' So the
children climbed, and when they reached the top they said, 'Mother, we
would not have done it without you.
'

And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up at the stars and
said, 'This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned
fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday, I gave them courage.
Today, I've given them strength'.

____________00_________

And the next day came strange clouds which darkened the earth, clouds of
war and hate and evil, and the children groped and stumbled, and the
mother said: 'Look up. Lift your eyes to the light'. And the children
looked and saw above the clouds an everlasting glory, and it guided them
beyond the darkness. And that night the Mother said, 'This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.'

And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and
the mother grew old and she was little and bent. But her children were
tall and strong, and walked with courage. And when the way was rough,
they lifted her, for she was as light as a feather; and at last they
came to a hill, and beyond they could see a shining road and golden
gates flung wide. And mother said, 'I have reached the end of my
journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my
children can walk alone, and their children after them.'

And the children said, 'You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.' And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said:
'We cannot see her but she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence.......'

Your Mother is always with you.... She's the whisper of the leaves as
you walk down the street; she's the smell of bleach in your freshly
laundered socks; she's the cool hand on your brow when you're not well.
Your Mother lives inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every
tear drop.

She's the place you came from, your first home; and she's the map you
follow with every step you take.

She's your first love and your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth
can separate you.


Not time, not space... not even death!


Specially contributed by Manisha with a message:

PASS THIS ON TO ALL THE MOTHERS & CHILDREN YOU KNOW. MAY WE NEVER TAKE OUR MOTHERS FOR GRANTED! Pass it on to the men too because they have mothers too...!

international-aids-conference-homosexuality

Indian has
2.5 million homosexuals, of which
15% have HIV
10,000 are at high risk for HIV --> STD source: NACO
75 million men in Asia visit sex workers,
10 million women sell sex to these men.
HIV epidemic in Asia is mainly driven by men who go for paid sex. source: Recent report by the world's first independent commission on AIDS in Asia-Pacific



Legalise homosexuality MSM:
Union Health Minister
Mr. Ramadoss says at the
INTERNATIONAL AIDS CONFERENCE August 7, 2008 Thursday
9 Aug 2008, 0011 hrs IST, Kounteya Sinha,TNN


MEXICO CITY:
The gay community in India, fighting for social and legal acceptance, has found a friend in no less a person than Union health minister A Ramadoss, who assured them of all help in legalising homosexuality in the country.

Addressing a 250-strong India session at the International AIDS Conference here on Thursday, he strongly campaigned for the changing the law which makes homosexuality illegal. "Section 377 of IPC, which criminalizes men who have sex with men, must go," he said, at the risk of inviting a political reaction back home.

Under the IPC, sex between two men is considered "against the order of nature". Ramadoss's comments came a day after TOI reported how men who have sex with men (MSM) were posing to be India's greatest challenge in its fight against AIDS.

National Aids Control Organization(NACO) estimates that India is home to 2.5 million MSMs of which 100,000 are at high risk of contracting HIV due to multi-partner and commercial sexual practices. Already, 15% of this community have got infected with the deadly disease.

Ramadoss said, "MSMs are our major concern. We have to contain the epidemic within this community. The number of targeted interventions specially for this community is being scaled up tremendously." The minister also called for a relook into the impending Bill to amend the Immoral Trafficking (Prevention) Act.

The Bill was moved in Parliament in 2006 by the ministry of women and child development headed by Renuka Chowdhury.

Chowdhury's Bill also drew criticism at the India session from UNAIDS chief Peter Piot, who said, "The Bill has raised concerns that it would push prostitution underground."

According to a recent report by the world's first independent commission on AIDS in Asia-Pacific, the HIV epidemic in Asia is mainly driven by men who go for paid sex. While 75 million men in Asia visit sex workers, 10 million women sell sex to these men.
Legalise homosexuality: Ramadoss-India-The Times of India

cyberaffair-humor

TOP 10 SIGNS YOUR WOMAN IS HAVING AFFAIR ON LINE



10. Lately, she sits at the computer naked.

9. After signing off, he always has a cigarette.

8. The giant rubber inflatable disk drive.

7. In the morning, the computer screen is all fogged up.

6. He's gotten amazingly good at typing with one hand.

5. Every day, Bill Gates sends 10 million dollars worth of flowers.

4. The jam in the laser printer is a pair of underwear.

3. During sex she screams "A COLON BACKSLASH ENTER INSERT!!!!"

2. The fax file is filled with pictures of some guy's ass.

1. Lipstick on the mouse


source:
Lots of Jokes - Top Ten Lists II.
Top Ten Signs Your Spouse Is Having A Cyber Affair...

study-is-better-than-sex

TOP 10 REASONS WHY STUDY IS BETTER THAN SEX



WHY STUDY IS BETTER THAN SEX?

10. You can usually find someone to do it with.

9. If you get tired, you can stop, save your place and pick up where you left off.

8. You can finish early with-out feelings of guilt or shame.

7. When you open a book, you don't have to worry about who else has opened it.

6. A little coffee and you can do it all night.

5. If you don't finish a chapter you won't gain a reputation as a "book teaser."

4. You can do it, eat and watch TV all at the same time.

3. You don't get embarrassed if your parents interrupt you in the middle.

2. You don't have to put your beer down to do it.

1. If you aren't sure what you're doing, you can always ask your roommate for help!

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Lots of Jokes
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Once upon a time, a perfect man and a perfect woman met.

After a perfect courtship, they had a perfect wedding. Their life together was, of course, perfect. One snowy, stormy Christmas Eve, this perfect couple was driving their perfect car (a Grand Caravan) along a winding road, when they noticed someone at the side of the road in distress. Being the perfect couple, they stopped to help. There stood Santa Claus with a huge bundle of toys. Not wanting to disappoint any children on the eve of Christmas, the perfect couple loaded Santa and his toys into their vehicle. Soon they were driving along delivering toys. Unfortunately, the driving conditions deteriorated and the perfect couple and Santa Claus had an accident. Only one of them survived the accident. The mind numbing question is: Who was the survivor?

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The perfect woman survived. She's the only one who really existed in the first place. Everyone knows there is no Santa Claus and there is no such thing as a perfect man. Women stop reading here. That is the end of the joke.

Men keep'a scrollin'...












So, if there is no perfect man and no Santa Claus, the perfect woman must have been driving. And that explains why there was a car accident. By the way, if you're a woman and you're reading this, this illustrates another point: Women never listen, either.

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hindi-songs

MAGIC OF HINDI MOVIE SONGS


The immortal melodies from hindi cinema bring romantic touching mood.
The lyrics of some songs are perennial source of wisdom and philosopy.

This is a priceless, unacknowledged, contribution of the Hindi Movies, old and new.

Whether you are working in the kitchen, resting at night or studying the hindi movie songs transport you to an exhuberant climate. Any Asian Indian is bound to experience deprivation if s/he does not get to hear favourite songs, and is bound to feel at home when listening to these songs. This being the magic of hindi movie songs, I am posting just one lyric that I am listening right now as I work.

Hindi songs, full of love, philosophy and melody are embeded in the Indian peoples pschye as they have been listening as children, adolescents, adults. They can transport you in time.

Hindi songs are
Mood elevators, Tranquilizers without the pill.
Counselors without the bill.
Hindi songs have de ja vu feel.
One feels at home, back to country. What a
nostalgic euporia?

The above atributes immediately came to my mind.
Below is lyric from the Movie Kajal. It is intoxicatingly sensuous love song without a tinge of vulgar.

Lyric:
choo laney do nazuk hoonton ko kuch aur nahi hay jaam hay yeh qudrat nay jo hum ko bakhsha
hay wo sab se haseen inaam hay yeh choo laney do nazuk honton ko.. sharma kay na youhi kho dena
rangeen jawani ki ghariyan
(2) betaab dharaktey seenoo ka armaan bhara peghaam hay yeh choo laney
do nazuk honton ko acchon ko bura sabit karna duniya ki purani aadat hay (2) iss may ko mubarak
cheez samajh mana kay bohat badnaam hay yeh choo laney do nazuk hoonton ko kuch aur nahi hay
jaam hay yeh qudrat nay jo hum ko bakhsha hay wo sab se haseen inaam hay yeh choo laney do nazuk
honton ko..


More KAJAL Lyrics:

1. Tora man darpan kahalaaye
2. Kabira Nirbhay Raam Jap
3. Aapke Bheege Hue Jism Se
4. Samjhi Thi Ke Ye Ghar
5. Chhoo Lene Do Nazuk
6. Cham Cham Ghungaroo Bole
7. Zara Si Aur Pila Do

Chhoo Lene Do Nazuk lyrics, Lyrics of Chhoo Lene Do Nazuk, Chhoo Lene Do Nazuk song. - HindiLyrics.SmasHits.com

four-wives

Four Wives

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Moral :

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our deathbed to lament.


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man-woman-humor

Chill pill. Cool. Take life easy.
An argument with my husband tends to make me want to clean something...
With his toothbrush.

The old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything,
the young know everything.

When one is at home . . . he dreams of adventure.When one is on an adventure . . . he dreams of home.

Surely, the finest teachers of creativity, persistence,
and unconditional love, are children.

My friend, single handedly, tries to save the economy
every time she goes shopping.

It's not the extreme right or left that will take us
to hell in a hand basket. It's the vast, indifferent middle.

During these colder months it's important to conserve energy.
I try and do my part by laying on the sofawatching TV all day.

Women are like toilets.
Either: Vacant, Engaged or full of crap.

My husband goes to a female dentist just for the novelty
of hearing a woman tell him to open his mouth.

I do not diet because along with loss of body weight, Scientists report, there is loss of brain cells. It's a case of think or slim!

The reason why children are so happy is now obvious to me:
they don't have any children of their own to worry about.

Politics is
the gentle art of getting votes from the poor
and campaign funds from the rich.

If all our religious, national holidays were observed India would work only for 5 months a year.

I explained the facts of life to my teenagers tonight.
My insulin keeps me alive; smoke n booze keeps them alive.
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before-marriage-after-marriage

Don't miss this joke.


Before marriage
Boy: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.

Girl: Do you want me to leave?

Boy: NO! Don’t even think about it.

Girl: Do you love me?

Boy: Of course! Over and over!

Girl: Have you ever cheated on me?

Boy: NO! Why are you even asking?

Girl: Will you hug me?

Boy: Every chance I get!

Girl: Will you beat me up?

Boy: Are you crazy! I’m not that kind of person!

Girl: Can I trust you?

Boy: Yes.

Girl: Darling!

After marriage - - -

simply read the above conversation from bottom to top.

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for-sex-deprived-husband-humorous


H
usband and wife are getting all snugly in bed. The passion is heating up.

But then the wife stops and says, "I don' t feel like it.
I just want you to hold me."
The husband says " WHAT???"

The wife explains that he must not be in tune with her emotional needs as a woman. The husband realizes that nothing is going to happen tonight and he might as well deal with it.

So the next day the husband takes her
shopping at a big dept. store.
He walks around and had her try on
three very expensive outfits.
And then tells his wife, We 'll take all
three of them. Then goes over and gets
matching shoes worth $200 each. And
then goes to the jewelry Dept. and
gets a set of diamond earrings.
The wife is so excited (she thinks her
husband has flipped out, but she does not care).
She goes for the tennis braceoet.
The husband says "but you don't even
play tennis, but OK if you like it
then lets get it. 'The wife is
jumping up and down. So excited
she cannot even believe what is going
on. She says " I am ready to go,
lets go to the cash register. "
The husband says, " no -- no -- no, honey
we ' re not going to buy all this stuff."
The wife face goes blank.

"No honey - I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while."
Her face gets really red she is about to explode and then the husband says." You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a MAN!!!!!!!!"

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send-health-record

HOW TO PROVIDE YOUR MEDICAL CASE RECORDS on the Internet to one or more doctors?



How is your medical case history transmitted on the internet to get expert opinion from another doctor? The answer is MDMS.
What is the Google Health Data API feed?
With this open source software one can can create, view, send, request for medical case history. I prefer to use MDMS, Medical Data Management System, as abbreviation for this tool.
MDMS enables a person any where in the world to provide medical data to get personalized medical help from a doctor.

If you change the doctor, or seek second opinion, the same medical data can be made available to another doctor.

The format of your medical data is defined by the medical industry. (see CCR)

The Google Health data API supports a subset of the CCR. CCR ("Continuity of Care Record") is a format defined by the medical industry. The CCR is primarily designed to facilitate the transfer of a snapshot of a patient's medical history when that individual moves from one medical provider to another. In the case of Google Health, a partner site can send a patient's CCR to Google. Given the proper user permissions, another partner site can then download that person's CCR.

How do I start?


If you're new to the Google Health Data API, here's how we recommend you get started:

1. Get familiar with the Google Data protocol.
2. Read the Google Health Developer's Guide.
3. Refer to the Reference Guide, as needed.
4. Read about the supported CCR element

Source:
http://code.google.com/apis/health/
Health Data API - Google Code

smart-wife-jokes

"Julia," asked Mary thoughtfully one day, "what would you do if you caught your husband with another woman?"

"Another woman with MY husband?" Julia thought it over.

"Let's see; I'd break her cane, shoot her guide dog, and call a cab to take her back to the institution she escaped from."

ATM=AnyTimeMoney

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?" And the father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

14 FEMALE RULES

1. The female always makes the rules.

2. These rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification.

3. No male can possibly know all the rules.

4. If the female suspects that the male knows all the rules, she must

immediately change some or all of the rules.

5. The female is never wrong.

6. If the female is wrong, it is because of a vagrant misunderstanding which

was a direct result of something the male said or did wrong.

7. If rule number 6 applies, the male must immediately apologize for causing

the misunderstanding.
KISS

"I have a bad headache. I'll visit the doctor."
"Nonsense,
yesterday I had a headache, I dashed home, gave a big kiss to my wife
and the pain disappeared. Why don't you try it?"
"Good idea, call up your wife and tell her I'll be right over."



8. The female can change her mind at any given point in time.

9. The male must never change his mind without express written consent of the

female.

10. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.

11. The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be

angry or upset.

12. The female must under no circumstances let the male know whether she wants

him to be calm, angry or upset.

13. Any attempt to document these rules could result in bodily harm.

14. The female always has the last word. [Except when the male ends up saying, "Sorry"!]

premature-ejaculation-precum-4

is-madness-in-your-family

Madness and Geniuses

Despite evidence of a link between genius and madness, no one has proved that such a link exists. Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder (Manic Depressive Psychosis)is often seen in the family tree due to hereditary genes. Scientists at the University of Toronto have discovered that
Jordan Peterson, University of Toronto psychology professor says,
"This means that creative individuals remain in­ contact with the extra information constantly streaming in from the environment. The normal person classifies an object, and then forgets about it, even though that object is much more complex and interesting than he or she thinks. The creative person, by contrast, is always open to new possibilities [source: University of Toronto]."

This means creative people possess little to no "latent inhibition."
Latent inhibition is the unconscious ability to reject unimportant or irrelevant stimuli.

  1. John Nash (1928 - )
  2. Vincent van Gogh (1853 - 1890)
  3. Edgar Allan Poe (1809 - 1849)
  4. Ludwig van Beethoven (1770 - 1827)
  5. Sir Isaac Newton (1642 - 1727)

What is common between them?
HowStuffWorks has selected these as Top 5 Mad Geniuses See Jane McGrath's article

Some of the world's most renowned creative minds, including writers Mary Shelley, Virginia Woolf, and Ernest Hemingway; composers Irving Berlin and Sergey Rachmaninoff; and painters Paul Gauguin and Jackson Pollock are all believed to have suffered from the illness [source: Patient Health International].
these mad geniuses -- the famous thinkers and artists who may have experienced mental illness. First, we'll inspect the modern case of John Nash, whose schizophrenia has been sensationalized by Hollywood. Here you can take a closer look at the profiles of these eminent people: HowStuffWorks "Top 5 Mad Geniuses" by Jane McGrath

In fact, some scientists claim that a far greater percentage of creative types (poets, painters, musicians and the like) have been afflicted with bipolar disorder (manic depressive psychosis) than the general ­population.

9-Year-Old Math Genius Goes to College source REUTERS VIDEO
Watch this video about a 9-year-old math genius that is going to college. March Tian Boedihardjo is a true child prodigy, a math and statistics genius who was recently enrolled at Hong Baptist University; this makes Boedihardjo the youngest student ever to be admitted to the university. See how… (August, 2007)

bad-girls-jokes

Clean jokes

Good girls say "thanks for a wonderful dinner"...
Bad girls say, "what's for breakfast?"

Good girls never go after another girl's man...
Bad girls go after him AND his brother.

Good girls wear white cotton panties...
Bad girls don't wear any.

Good girls wax their floors...
Bad girls wax their bikini lines.

Good girls loosen a few buttons when it's hot...
Bad girls make it hot by loosening a few buttons.

Good girls make chicken for dinner...
Bad girls make reservations.

Good girls blush during bedrooms scenes in movies...
Bad girls know they could do better.

Good girls never consider sleeping with the boss...
Bad girls never do either, unless he's very, very rich.

Good girls believe you're not fully dressed without a strand of pearls...
Bad girls believe that you are fully dressed with JUST a strand of pearls.

Good girls love Italian food...
Bad girls love Italian waiters.
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How and Where to ASK DOCTOR
Click 'comments' below the post. A question window will open.
To get personalized, specific EXPERT MEDICAL OPINION provide maximum details of your specific problem, such as _ _ _
You will get reply to your valid email.

The communication will be strictly confidential. We respect your privacy.
The more details you provide [measurements or images]the more precise and personalized will be the reply.

MINIMUM DETAILS:
Age - Gender - Marital status: To get married/Just Married/Married since _ _
Since when is the problem

Did you have similar problem earlier? Provide details about it.
What treatment/advice you have taken so far?

What did the doctor say? What did your partner say about the problem?

Do you have other illnesses like Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, Heart Problem, Depression? Are you taking any medication presently? Are you allergic to any medicines?
Did you have abnormality in your reports of blood or other medical tests done in last two years?

Mention any other details, even if they appear small matters to you. This can be important if you want expert medical opinion that is specific to your problem.
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What outcome do you expect from the treatment?

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How many days you bleed? How many days cycle you have? Is it regular? What was the shortest cycle and the longest cycle during the last one year? Do you have unbearable pain during periods? What medication you take? Give past history of problems and treatment taken.

You will get reply to your valid email. The email will not appear on the website and will be only used to reply.
You may also check the reply below your query. Here too, your identity will not be ever disclosed.
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Medical Director
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Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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Specially Contributed by Sangita.
How ONE sentence makes a difference.

Martin wakes up at home with a huge hangover. He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins and a glass of water on the side table. He sits down and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed. Martin looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotless, clean. So is the rest of the house.

He takes the aspirins and notices a note on the table.

'Honey, breakfast is on the stove, I left early to go shopping. Love You!'

So he goes to the kitchen and sure enough there is a hot
breakfast and the morning newspaper. His teenage son is also at the table, eating. Martin asks,

'Son, what happened last night?' His son says,

'Well, you came home around 3 AM, drunk and delirious. Broke some furniture, puked in the hallway, and gave yourself a black eye when you stumbled into the door.'

Confused, Martin asks,

'So, why is everything in order and so clean, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me?' His son replies,

'O
h, that! Apparently Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your pants off, you said,

Get your hands off me, bitch! I'm married!'

Moral of the Story
Self-induced hangover -- $100.00
Broken furniture -- $2,000.00
Breakfast -- $10.00
Saying The Right Thing to your wife when you are Drunk- PRICELESS!
The happiest business in all the world is that of making friends and no investment on the street pays larger dividends

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MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
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for-better-sex-what-not-to-do

Simple things to know if you care to have better sex.
Nothing if you do not care about sex.


THE TIMES OF INDIA



Enough has been said about what women and men want when it comes to sex but how about what they ‘do not want’?

REFUSALS could very easily be interpreted as rejections, which can directly hit the person's self - esteem, and unfortunately pave the way for him/her to feel inadequate and unwanted.


Yes, not most couples would know that their little ‘unintentional’ acts can prove to be really big turn-off for their partners.

Those cosy moments that are meant to bring ultimate joy and pleasure in bed can go drastically wrong before you even realise what’s happening.

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM ACTUALLY?

Picture this: Your lover is caressing you all over, trying to build up the heat and suddenly you decide to ask: How was your day at work? Or your lover is trying best to control himself to ensure that you are equally satisfied and you abruptly remind him of the protection pill that you forgot. What a turn-off indeed!

Wait! It’s not only women who tend to irk their men by these unwanted gestures. Men are equally responsible for dampening things in the bedroom by their little acts – such as going off to sleep immediately after the act or not bothering with foreplay at all, leaving her to work on that herself.

Dr. Sanjay Chugh opines, “Any sexual act holds a certain meaning and has its own significance for the partners. When we are deeply involved in any kind of work, interruptions are always seen as irritating, annoying and frustrating and it’s no different when it comes to making love. Refusals could very easily be interpreted as rejections, which can directly hit the person's self - esteem, and unfortunately pave the way for him/her to feel inadequate and unwanted.”

Agrees Rita Gangwani, image enhancer and personality architect, “Sometimes you can put off your partner without even realising where you went wrong. It could be a physical, mental or an emotional reason. They can include: Fear of pregnancy and constant reminders of it during lovemaking, pretending to have a headache, blatantly pointing out on some body flaw, avoiding sex by putting it on having a tiring day at work, insisting on conditions of keeping the light off or not stripping completely, and so on.”

LOVE MAKING is a very intimate act where people connect with each other physically, sexually, emotionally and spiritually.



And if this is not enough, there are several other turn-offs that include hygiene issues, acts and positions in bed, thoughts that rule your mind during sex ...the list is endless.

Model cum actor Suchitra Pillai feels, “Couples today tend to get involved in their own lives so much so that they forget what the other partner wants. Specially while having sex, they can’t just talk about their tiredness and hectic day. You have to take out quality time to enjoy without interruptions.”

Model Ramneek Pantal shares, “Problems are there in everyone’s life but ‘happy mood’ is not the right time to discuss. I make sure that I clear everything with my husband before we sleep. Otherwise I don’t let him sleep, because, it ultimately affects our sex life too, as you can’t talk clearly and openly about sex when you’re having problems.”

THE WAY OUT

Now that you’ve got the point about what not to do to turn off your partner in bed, how do you go about it?

Rita recommends, “Expand your sexual horizons and learn new ways to turn each other on. Some ideas may seem like basic romance but let's be honest and ask when was the last time you actually practised them? The only way for this to work is to put the ideas into practice.”

Dr. Chugh suggests, “Understand that love making is a very intimate act where people connect with each other physically, sexually, emotionally and spiritually. Respect each others needs, wants and desires and mutual satisfaction at every level is important to keep the fire burning! Try to understand what your partner enjoys, what is exciting for him, what stimulates him and toying with certain new ideas and concepts would help the couple look forward to those love-making sessions.”



Source:

THE TIMES OF INDIA

Dr. Ashok Koparday
MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships
Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India
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abortion

LAW WINS OVER HUMAN WISDOM
Medical Science can help the distressed couple with Medical Termination of Pregnancy introduced legally in 1971. The story of the debated 'abortion' case as appeared in
THE TIMES OF INDIA


NEW DELHI:
Government on Monday ruled out amending the abortion laws in consideration of cases like that of Niketa Mehta who wanted to terminate her 26-week pregnancy as the child would be born with a congenital heart defect.

"As it is today going by just one case, I do not think the law can be amended," Union Health Minister Anbumani Ramadoss told reporters on the sidelines of a meeting of the National Rural Health Mission here.

He, however, said a broad discussion would take place on the issue and all aspects of such cases would be taken into consideration.

"We sympathise with her case and would discuss all other avenues," he said.

The Bombay High Court on Monday disallowed aborting a 26-week foetus with a heart defect after observing that the plea by the young mother to terminate her pregnancy was equivalent to "mercy killing."

Dismissing an application by Niketa Mehta torn between trauma and ethical issues, the court observed that medical experts did not express any "categorical opinion that if the child is born it would suffer from serious handicaps."

Source of the above report:
THE TIMES OF INDIA


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MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

Ex. Teaching Faculty
Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

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LOVE HEALS THE HEART
EXPRESS LOVE

dean-ornish-love-intimacy-reverses-heart-blood-vessel-block
The Doctor Who Scientifically Proved That Love, Intimacy, Healthy Life Style
HEALS HEART, Removes Blocks in Heart Blood Vessels


No wonder that
Dr. Ornish was recognized as
"one of the most interesting people
of 1996" by People magazine, featured in the "Time 100" issue on alternative medicine, and chosen by LIFE magazine as "one of the 50 most influential members of his generation."

Lifestyle changes can reverse even severe coronary heart disease, without drugs or surgery.


Dr. Dean Ornish has an alternative treatment program whereby BY PASS SURGERY can be avoided.
He has proved that Meditation can replace Medication. Choked up Heart Blood Vessels can be freed.
Dean Ornish M.D.'s Lifestyle Program

ABOUT DEAN ORNISH



Dean Ornish, MD, is the founder, president, and director of the non-profit Preventive Medicine Research Institute in Sausalito, California, where he holds the Bucksbaum Chair. He is Clinical Professor of Medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Dr. Ornish received his medical training from the Baylor College of Medicine, Harvard Medical School, and the Massachusetts General Hospital. He received a BA in Humanities summa cum laude from the University of Texas in Austin, where he gave the baccalaureate address.

For the past 25 years, Dr. Ornish has directed clinical research demonstrating, for the first time, that comprehensive lifestyle changes may begin to reverse even severe coronary heart disease, without drugs or surgery. He is the author of five best-selling books, including
New York Times' bestsellers
Dr. Dean Ornish's Program for Reversing Heart Disease,
Eat More, Weigh Less, and
Love & Survival.
He recently directed the first randomized controlled trial demonstrating that comprehensive lifestyle changes may affect the progression of prostate cancer.

The research that he and his colleagues conducted has been published in the Journal of the American Medical Association, The Lancet, Circulation, The New England Journal of Medicine, the American Journal of Cardiology, and elsewhere. A one-hour documentary of his work was broadcast on "NOVA," the PBS science series, and was featured on Bill Moyers' PBS series, "Healing & The Mind." Their work has been featured in virtually all major media, including cover stories in Newsweek, Time, and U.S. News & World Report.

Dr. Ornish is a member of the board of directors of the U.S. United Nations High Commission on Refugees, the Quincy Jones Listen Up Foundation, and the Wheelchair Foundation. He was appointed to The White House Commission on Complementary and Alternative Medicine Policy and elected to the California Academy of Medicine.

He has received several awards, including the 1994 Outstanding Young Alumnus Award from the University of Texas at Austin, the Jan J. Kellerman Memorial Award for distinguished contribution in the field of cardiovascular disease prevention from the International Academy of Cardiology, the Golden Plate Award from the American Academy of Achievement, a Presidential Citation from the American Psychological Association, the Beckmann Medal from the German Society for Prevention and Rehabilitation of Cardiovascular Diseases, and a U.S. Army Surgeon General Medal. Dr. Ornish has been a physician consultant to The White House and to several bipartisan members of the U.S. Senate and House of Representatives. He is listed in Who's Who in Healthcare and Medicine, Who's Who in America, and Who's Who in the World.

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ALTERNATIVE SURGICAL METHODS

1. Myomectomy —
Abdominal or open myomectomy is a standard and accepted form of treatment of symptomatic fibroids in women who wish to retain their uterus and reproductive function. With technical advances in minimal access surgery, myomectomy can now be performed laparoscopically for intramural and subserous fibroids. Although laparoscopic myomectomy is technically difficult and takes more operating time, it offers significant benefits of less postoperative pain and shorter recovery time in comparison to open myomectomy. Recurrence of fibroids after laparoscopic myomectomy remains a concern. Hysteroscopic resection of submucous fibroid is indicated in symptomatic women presenting with heavy bleeding or reproductive failure. It is a day care procedure with very little risk.

2. Laparoscopic myolysis —
The procedure can be used as a minimally invasive alternative treatment to myomectomy in women who do not wish to have children and have large symptomatic fibroids. The procedure involves laparoscopic use of neodymium: yttrium-alluminium-garnet (ND : YAG) laser to coagulate the myoma. Alternative energy sources have subsequently been used, such as diathermy, and a cryoprobe has been used to carry out myolysis.

3. Uterine artery embolisation (UAE) —
It is rather a popular alternative treatment to myomectomy/hysterectomy. It has been observed to be safe and effective, has fewer major complications and a shorter hospital stay. The technique involves percutaneous insertion of an angiography catheter via a femoral artery into the ipsilateral or contralateral uterine artery, by an interventional radiologist assisting the gynaecologist. Polyvinyl alcohol particles 300-500 mm in size are injected into the vessel until blood flow ceases. Embolisation may affect myometrial integrity leading to uterine rupture during pregnancy.

4. Magnetic resonance guided percutaneous laser ablation —
It is a promising alternative minimally invasive therapy for fibroids. Under local anaesthesia, four magnetic resonance-compatible 18-gauge needles are placed within the target fibroid under MRI guidance. Laser fibres are threaded into the outer needle sheath until the laser tips are within the fibroid substance. An infrared di-iode laser is used for thermal ablation of the fibroid. A 41% reduction in mean fibroid volume was observed at 12-month follow-up. The quality of life and satisfaction scores were similar to those seen in women after hysterectomy.

5. Interstitial laser photocoagulation —
The principle is the same as for magnetic resonance guided laser ablation, but the laser fibres are placed in the fibroids under laparoscopic guidance. It can be performed by any gynaecologist-laparoscopist without the need for expensive equipment to monitor thermal changes.

6. High intensity focussed ultrasound (HIFU) energy —
This non-invasive approach of treatment of symptomatic fibroids has generated great interest. Under MRI guidance, an ultrasound beam of approximately 1.0-1.5 mHz delivered the energy directly to the targeted tissue for fibroid ablation. HIFU has an excellent safety profile. In contrast to more diffuse necrosis caused by UAE, the targeting ability of HIFU produces few adverse effects.

Hydrothermal Ablation



Hydrothermal ablation methods, based on their safety and efficacy, are being used as an alternative to hysterectomy in selected women presenting with heavy periods, provided future fertility is no longer an issue.

First generation methods —
These are endometrial resection, rollerball coagulation and endometrial ablation. These approaches afford shorter hospital stay, faster recovery and financial savings. Transcervical resection of endometrium (TCRE) using electrical or laser energy and a rectoscope is a simple procedure under local, epidural or general anaesthesia. The rollerball ablation is tried with a roller of 2 mm diameter sphere on the rectoscope wire which can roll freely on its axis and a unipolar coagulating current is applied to the endometrium21. Laser vaporisation with Nd: YAG laser is used to systematically destroy the superficial layers of endometrium. In expert hands, the results are impressive with a success rate of 93%, 74% become amenorrhoeic and 14% reported satisfactory results.

Second generation methods —
These techniques aim to induce permanent thermal damage to basal endometrium by applying heat/cold from a variety of sources eg, heated fluid, microwave, radiofrequency, cryocautery or laser energy. Hydrothermal ablation devices, introduced in 1994, have undergone several modifications. These devices are less operator-dependent and easier to use than first generation techniques.

Source
Study published by
S N Mukherjee
©

DGO, MD, FACS, FAMS, FICOG, FICMCH, Senior Consultant Obstetrician and Gynaecologist, New Delhi 110092 and Ex-Professor and Head of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, JIPMER, Pondicherry 605006, Indira Gandhi Medical College, Simla 171001, UCMS and Safdarjung Hospiral, New Delhi 110095, Maulana Azad Medical College and LNJPN Hospital, New Delhi 110002
[J Indian Med Assoc 2008; 106: 232-6]©
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